A Post On...Hatred?

One year ago, I was a nothing. I was a wannabe writer with no real skill, and a lot of useless information in her head.

Repeatedly, I condemned myself to relationships (both platonic AND romantic, people!) that ended up only hurting me when I wanted to give so much more than I was really ready to handle. Have I done that this year?

Hell yeah.

But I don't cry like I used to; for no reason, angry, hurt, whatever. I've learned to deal with things in a more inward way. I've forged relationships where both members give what they've got, because others end up being all that we have. I've given up the naive nature in which I said I don't hate anyone.

You live, you learn, you love...and you hate. And that's perfectly fine. There are people who you just aren't going to like. You DO NOT have to like everyone. Just know what you're talking about. Have your evidence if someone asks why. Hating for no reason is what is morally incorrect.

Then there are the people you condemn for doing you wrong. They've done you wrong knowingly. EVERYONE has a free will. Unless there are stressed circumstances, everyone has a perception of good and evil. The line is "wuzzy," to quote Jane Goodall, but once someone has provoked your tears YOU ARE UNDER NO OBLIGATION to be nice. You shouldn't go out for revenge, but you should ignore them. It's actually as easy as giving someone the silent treatment. Only more permanent.

Of course, I'm not talking about a friend who was careless with his/her words. I mean the nasty backstabbers that you KNOW are mean. Don't hate somebody because they did better than you on a test, or a thinner, prettier, more talented at whatnot. That makes you the bad guy. Because that person has a blessing. You have yours, too.

I've learned that you can't be without ugly feelings. To deny them, is to deny the fact that you are human. Just don't let them consume you (I know; hypocritical, but I'm INFORMING. I'm blogging-legit, hoes.) and be classy about it.

Because CLASS is what will get you through life. Trust me, someone without an inkling of class is likely to be unanimously despised.

MORAL: Be classy about being a hater hoe. (And don't let people see you glare!)
HAPPY NEW YEAR!
(Listen to me, I know what I'm saying.)